100 First Dates

One Hundred First Dates: True Tales of Dating in the Modern World

Monday, November 21, 2005

I get by with a little help from my friends

originally posted Monday, November 21, 2005

I'm thankful for:

  • Dinner with S
  • Karaoke with C
  • The gym with N
  • Dinner conversation with S
  • Drinks with A
  • Indie / arty movies with J
  • Social commentary and discussion with L
  • and miscellaneous phone calls to catch up from A, T, and others...

I realize that my life is full and good.

My friends really get me and embrace me for all my weirdness. I get to fully be myself and each of them polishes a different facet of my personality.

I wonder if it's even possible for me to find a guy who can hang with this. I guess I've just come to the realization that I temper myself around guys I date. I tone it down so that they won't be too scared or threatened by my largesse. Maybe it's time to change that.

I don't seem to have a problem finding guys to date. I get along well with most people, but in order to find that snug Lego snap-click fit I might need to show my exotic dodecahedron shape.

On the other hand, maybe I just need to accept the revolving door with my relationships and be thankful that I've got such a great group of friends in my life. Boys come and go, but friends are there to stay.

1 Comments:

  • At 5:38 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello MD,
    Friends really are the best yes i will agree. If you can have many close firends, the ones that do what you describe and really embrase your personality, you are a very fortunate person. And it is fantastic having groups of friends that all know and love each other and each person plays their certain role in the group dynamic but it is also fantastic to have so many different friends that you do so many crazy and wonderful new and fantasic things with as they all have different personalities and interests, your life is never dull then. I love your last quote that you have put on this blog- thank goodness for that !!!
    Goodnight, have a lovely sleep and will reas some more tomorrow :-)
    Regards, A

     

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